A non-molestation order can protect someone from abuse, threats, intimidation or harassment by an associated person. If you are frightened about what a partner, former partner or family member might do next, understanding the available protection and how to apply is often more important than understanding legal terminology.
In England and Wales, an order can prohibit specified conduct and can be obtained urgently when the circumstances justify it. This updated guide explains the process in 2026, what evidence can help and what happens when an order is breached. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999 rather than waiting to arrange a civil court application.
What is a non-molestation order?
A non-molestation order is an injunction made under Part IV of the Family Law Act 1996. It can prevent a person from threatening, intimidating, harassing or otherwise molesting an applicant or relevant child. The order will specify the behaviour prohibited and may set limits on contact or approaching particular locations.
The term ‘molestation’ is not restricted to physical violence. Depending on the facts, repeated unwanted messages, coercive behaviour, threats, surveillance and abusive conduct can be relevant. The court considers the applicant’s circumstances and the need to secure their health, safety and wellbeing.
A non-molestation order differs from an occupation order. The latter addresses occupation of the family home, including who may live there. A person may need one order or both, depending on their situation. The current FL401 guidance explains the difference.
Who can apply and what does it cost?
An applicant must have a legally recognised connection with the respondent, such as being spouses, former spouses, civil partners, former partners, cohabitants or certain family members. Other forms of association may qualify. Whether a particular relationship meets the statutory definition should be checked before an application is issued.
There is no court application fee for an FL401 non-molestation order. That does not mean every case has no cost: solicitor representation and obtaining evidence may involve fees, although legal aid can be available for eligible applicants. A person should ask about funding and the likely scope of legal work at the outset.
The availability of domestic abuse protection orders is not identical to that of ordinary non-molestation orders. In 2026, DAPO arrangements are subject to a pilot operating only in specified locations. Applicants elsewhere should not assume that route is open to them. GOV.UK’s injunction guidance identifies the areas.
How to apply for a non-molestation order
An application normally uses form FL401 with a supporting witness statement. Explain the incidents clearly and chronologically: dates, words used, threatening communications, injuries, witnesses and the impact on the applicant or child. Screenshots, police reference numbers and medical records can be relevant, but it is not necessary to produce every possible type of evidence.
The application can be made by an eligible person without a solicitor, but independent legal assistance is useful if the history is complicated, urgent protection is needed or the respondent may challenge the account. The court must assess what protection is justified, not simply accept an untested allegation as conclusive.
If giving notice would create a risk of significant harm or undermine protection, the court may consider an application without notice. Such orders are not automatic and will usually require further court arrangements so that the other person can respond. Any allegations and requests for urgency must be frank and accurate.
What happens if an ex-partner keeps sending threatening messages?
A parent receives repeated threatening messages from a former partner and is concerned about unannounced visits to the family home. They retain messages, note recent incidents and seek advice about an FL401 application. The court considers whether an injunction is necessary and which restrictions are proportionate. The applicant should also seek immediate police help if at risk.
How long does the order last and what if it is breached?
There is no single standard duration for every non-molestation order. The judge considers the evidence and can specify a period or make appropriate provision for its continuation. Applicants should read the operative terms carefully rather than assume an order will continue indefinitely.
Breach of a non-molestation order without reasonable excuse is generally a criminal offence under section 42A of the Family Law Act 1996. Police involvement may therefore be appropriate, particularly if there are threats or immediate danger. Civil enforcement routes may also be relevant in specific circumstances; the choice of route requires care to avoid duplicate proceedings.
Keep a copy of the sealed order, record new incidents promptly and inform the police or legal adviser about suspected breaches. Do not assume that an attempted reconciliation automatically cancels the court order; seek an appropriate variation or discharge if circumstances materially change.
When should you involve a family solicitor?
Legal advice is particularly helpful where protection is urgently required, a witness statement must be prepared quickly, child contact arrangements are affected or there is a dispute about ownership or occupation of the property. Applicants may need an occupation order or other arrangements alongside the injunction.
A respondent who disputes the allegations should also take prompt advice and comply with any existing order while the proceedings are addressed. Communication through solicitors can help reduce the risk of further conflict, but must not replace protective measures where a person is unsafe.
Britton and Time’s family law team can explain the legal options, the likely court steps and how a particular order interacts with children or housing arrangements. Contact us for an initial discussion.

The wording of the order matters
Our perspective
Protection must fit the behaviour complained of. A vague order can be difficult to understand or police effectively, while a proportionate and specific order can help both sides know what is prohibited. The precise restrictions should reflect the evidence and the safety concerns.
Common questions
Can I apply if there has been no physical assault?
Potentially, yes. Threats, harassment, coercive behaviour and other non-physical abuse may be relevant. The court assesses the particular relationship and evidence.
Will the respondent attend the first hearing?
Some cases are heard on notice; sufficiently urgent applications may be considered without prior notice, followed by further proceedings where appropriate.
Does an order determine where children live?
No. It is protective relief, not a substitute for a child arrangements order. Other orders may be needed.
Comments
What happens if the applicant send her address willingly yet the Non Molestation Order states you can’t have it can the applicant get done for this or is that grounds for the NMO to be removed
Hi Brett, that's a good question.
On the face of it, you haven't breached the non-molestation order as it was the applicant who sent her address to you. However, this doesn't mean that the order is removed, nor is it necessarily grounds for it to be removed. You should still abide by the order until such a time that it is reviewed or removed.
Please be advised the above is not legal advice, it's just our suggestion based upon what you have said above.
If you are looking to challenge the non-molestation order or get legal advice on this, please feel free to get in touch to book a consultation.
my landlord is my ex and there is a non mol order in place, he is only allowed to make contact via a solicitor. How therefore can outstanding repairs for the property be managed?
Hi Maro, apologies we missed your comment!
If there is a solicitor that you have been using to contact your ex, we would suggest that you offer any correspondence through them.
Your solicitor should be able to act as an intermediary, however they may charge a professional fee for this.
If the terms of your non-molestation order allow, you might consider asking a friend or family member to act as a go-between.
I have been served a NMO by my mother who allowed me access to her home, it even states it in the report. How was it possible for her to obtain this and can I get it overturned.
Hi Tony, thank you for your question.
It's difficult for us to say how your mother was able to get the non-molestation order approved without knowing more about your situation.
Ordinarily, only the person who applied for the non-molestation order can apply for it to be removed before it is set to expire.
However, it is possible to have an order overturned if you can demonstrate that the order was not based on valid grounds to begin with.
If you would like to discuss this in further detail, we would be happy to arrange a consultation. Please call us on 01273 726951, or email us at [email protected] to do so.
Very good advice.
How do I go about getting a non- molestation order removed? I got it out but its now getting in the way. I don't believe my ex is a risk to myself anymore
Dear Amy
Thank you for your question. If you would like to remove a non-molestation order which you put in place, you can do this by applying to the family court. Should you need any assistance with this, please just call us on 020 3007 5500 and we can book you in for an initial consultation with a member of our family team.
Hi. I've just received an NMO; yet in the Recital section of the court paperwork it states that no evidence of the allegations made by the applicant was found.
I gave my evidence bundle to the court and respectfully declined to attend the hearing. I had no further evidence or comments to give. I've not spoken to nor contacted the applicant since May 2019.
I am stunned at recieving a six month NMO, how is this justice?
Can a family group (father and 4 sons) apply for a NMO against 4 other family members using a single FL401 application form?
My non molestation order from my elderly father orchestrated by my sister and power of attorney has come to an end today. I have 100 % stood by the order and it hasn’t been breached. Can I have a relationship with him again or should I be fearful of it being extended?
If the person repondant if a non-molestation order then relocates, potentially nearer the applicant, but fails even when asked by a solicitor, to divulge his current new address...is this a breach of the order?
During NMO proceedings, cross-undertakings were given. How to remove cross-undertakings and get an NMO against my abuser?
I have a non-molestation order
But police reports of breaching it are coming back as NFA
Because the respondent keeps doing indirect threats and doesn't say my name even though I know it's about me. What can I add to my order to stop this?
Hello Dawn,
Thank you for reaching out with your comment. We will reach out to you via your email address to speak about your matter in a more private space. In the meantime, please feel free to call us on 020 3007 5500.
I had a molestation order for a year and 6 months to go but my daughter only 3 yrs old asking to see her dad and l thought the dad hadn’t changed but now when l phoned him l realise he’s changed and would like the order to be removed by the court. My worry is that will social services be notified by the court?
Hello Sally, thank you for comment. Our Client Care Team will be in touch to talk about your case further.
Can I remove undertakings if I'm thinking that father changed and able to see he's child?
Hello.
Is it possible to take out a NMO on a mother in law who is using emotional abuse and threatening behaviour to try and access my new baby? She threatens to punch me in the face and try and make claims she's going to take my baby away if I don't allow her to see my daughter. Only reason haven't called the police is for the sake of my partner. But I need some advice.
Is this grounds for an NMO?
Hello Emma, thank you for your comment and sorry to hear about your difficult situation. If you would like to discuss the suitability of a non-molestation order, please book in an initial consultation with our family solicitors. You can book in by calling 0203 007 5500 or emailing [email protected].
I have a non-Molestation order from filled out what do I do with it now
Do I take it to the court or get a solicitor
Hello Gary, thank you for your comment. Please contact our client care team, who can an assist you with your question and explain how a solicitor can help with non-molestation orders. You can call us on 0203 007 5500 or email [email protected]
Hello! Can I apply for a non-molestation order against my ex partner because I gave information to his ex- wife to be used in the family court for child care? He is been arrested twice for domestic abuse while he was still married, no charges have been made.
I am still afraid that he will seek revenge against me for given information to his ex-wife
Thanks!
Hello Diana, thank you for your comment. I'm sorry to hear about your circumstances. Please call us on 0203 007 5500 or email [email protected] and one of our team will gladly talk through this further with you and offer further guidance.
Hi I would like to no that I have had a non molestion order in place for over 5 year and would like to no how it will expire please thank you can u get back to me thank you for your time
Hello Mohammed, thank you for your comment. If you need legal advice about a non-molestation order, please book in a consultation with our family solicitors. You can do this by calling 0203 007 5500 or emailing [email protected]
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